
First of all, I didn’t say LATINA I said COLOMBIAN (with O) .
[This is because most foreign people confuse my country Colombia with Columbia, which is a state or even a city; or with Columbia the clothing brand they wear].
This is the first thing – if women of all nationalities just do like to feel special, Colombians love to feel super special and if you are able to understand that Colombian women are different from Latinas in general, you are in the right way.
I mean, we share a lot of stuff, but I’ll just focus on what helps you earn points.
Otherwise, we are moving to do new things, to create and develop our personal projects we do not want to be a pet girlfriend, since that’s not who we are. If you want to earn 70% of points, you need to SUPPORT and understand this part of who we are.
Likewise, Colombian women take a lot of pride in how they look and also how much time they spend on doing so, so when they don’t pay attention to that, then something serious is happening in their life.
(Personal experience on 2020) my recommendation: “Be an angel,” because you never know who you’re helping.
We are kind to everyone. This sometimes misunderstood as flirtation. Colombian women use slang terms like bby or bb, honey, swetie, amor, just because it’s part of our culture.
– – -Not all Colombian women do it but it’s very common.- – –
If we are flirting, it is more than just a kind word, a conversation, or just a smile…we have our own set of rules that are very clear.
That’s another thing: we choose you, you don’t choose us. Sorry about all the heartbreak now, but it is what it is.
Boundaries are important for us and if you don’t respect and just say oh, “I didn’t know” that’s a BIG MISTAKE. You should always ask if you have a doubt or if you’re not 100% secure. The fact that a Colombian girl is dating a foreigner suggests she understands what they do.
** Presents!!! Every time we meet up, you should came with something since roses, chocolates (it can be a little one), perfume , purses….It’ll depends for how long you’ve been dating. **
ALSO: Open the doors for us in the restaurant, in the car, especially if you’re in the first date!!!!!